Discharge is a normal part of the way our bodies work. But, while it’s normal for both men and women to experience discharge, the purpose, makeup, and what it can tell you about your health are very different. Understanding the difference between male and female discharge can help you to know what’s normal and when it’s time to see a healthcare provider.
In this article, we’ll discuss the differences between what’s considered normal discharge for men and women, some potential causes of changes in discharge, and when to seek medical care.
Understanding Female Vaginal Discharge
Let’s start by looking at how female bodies produce discharge.
What is Normal Vaginal Discharge?
Vaginal discharge is a normal and healthy bodily function. It helps keep the vagina clean and moisturized. Normal discharge can vary quite a bit from person to person, and in color, texture, and amount.
Key components of normal vaginal discharge include:
- Cervical mucus, which changes during the menstrual cycle. These changes can affect fertility, and understanding the facts is crucial if you’re concerned about whether a drop of sperm can make you pregnant.
- Arousal fluid, which is produced when someone is sexually aroused and is intended to make penetration easier.
Other things that can affect vaginal discharge include:
- Menstrual cycle stage
- Hormonal fluctuations
- Sexual activity
Identifying Abnormal Vaginal Discharge
Sometimes, changes in discharge can be a sign that something’s not quite right. Things to watch for include:
- Unusual odor
- Change in color or texture
- Itching or burning
These changes could be caused by:
- Infections like yeast infections, bacterial vaginosis, or sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)
- Hormonal imbalances
- Irritation from scented soaps or douches
Understanding Male Penile Discharge
While discharge is commonly associated with the vagina, the penis can also produce normal and abnormal discharge.
What is Normal Penile Discharge?
There are a few types of discharge that are considered normal for a penis:
- Pre-ejaculate (pre-cum): This fluid is secreted when a man is sexually aroused. It helps lubricate the urethra, making it easier for sperm to pass through. It also neutralizes any acid that might be lingering, which can harm sperm.
- Semen: This is the fluid that contains sperm, and it’s released during ejaculation. The consistency and appearance of semen can vary from person to person and even from one ejaculation to the next.
- Smegma: This is a buildup of dead skin cells, oils, and moisture. It’s most common in uncircumcised men because it accumulates under the foreskin. Smegma is normal, but it needs to be cleaned regularly.
Identifying Abnormal Penile Discharge
You should talk to a doctor if you notice any of the following:
- Unusual color (yellow, green, or bloody)
- Foul odor
- Pain, itching, or sores accompanying the discharge
These symptoms can be caused by:
- Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) like gonorrhea, chlamydia, and trichomoniasis
- Balanitis (inflammation of the head of the penis)
- Urethritis (inflammation of the urethra)
Comparing Causes and Implications of Abnormal Discharge
Both men and women can experience abnormal discharge. The causes and potential consequences, however, can differ significantly.
Infections
Female:
Common infections that can cause abnormal vaginal discharge include yeast infections, bacterial vaginosis (BV), and sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Symptoms often include itching, burning, and changes in the discharge’s color, consistency, or odor.
Male:
STIs are the most common cause of abnormal discharge from the penis. These STIs can include gonorrhea, chlamydia, and trichomoniasis. Symptoms may include pain during urination, itching, and a visible discharge that can range in color and consistency.
Non-Infectious Causes
Female:
Hormonal imbalances, irritants (like harsh soaps or douches), and allergic reactions can cause changes in vaginal discharge. These factors can lead to inflammation and general discomfort.
Male:
Balanitis, which is inflammation of the head of the penis (glans), can be caused by poor hygiene, irritants, or fungal infections. Urethritis, which is inflammation of the urethra, can result from injury or irritation.
Long-Term Implications
It’s important to seek care when you notice changes in your body.
In females, untreated infections can lead to pelvic inflammatory disease (PID), infertility, and an increased risk of ectopic pregnancy (when a fertilized egg implants outside the uterus).
In males, untreated infections can lead to epididymitis (inflammation of the epididymis, a tube that carries sperm), prostatitis (inflammation of the prostate gland), and infertility.
And, of course, both men and women can increase the risk of spreading infections to sexual partners if they don’t seek treatment.
When to Seek Medical Attention and Treatment Options
Both male and female discharge can signal underlying health issues. Here’s when to see a doctor and what treatments to expect.
Female
When to see a doctor:
- If your discharge changes and doesn’t seem related to your period.
- If you have persistent itching, an unusual color or odor, pain when you pee or have sex, or abnormal bleeding.
Common treatments:
- Antibiotics for bacterial infections
- Antifungal medications for yeast infections
- Avoiding irritating products and practicing good hygiene
Male
When to see a doctor:
- If you have any unusual discharge, especially if it’s accompanied by pain, sores, or itching.
- After unprotected sexual contact.
Common treatments:
- Antibiotics for bacterial STIs
- Antifungal creams for balanitis
- Maintaining good hygiene
Frequently Asked Questions
Can female discharge look like sperm?
Yes, sometimes female discharge can appear similar to sperm. Normal vaginal discharge can vary in consistency, and at certain times of the menstrual cycle, it may be whitish and creamy, resembling the look of semen. If you’re concerned about changes in your discharge, it’s always best to consult with a healthcare professional.
Why do I have so much discharge like I peed myself?
Experiencing a significant increase in vaginal discharge can be due to several factors, including ovulation, hormonal changes, or even a potential infection. While it might feel like you’ve “peed yourself,” it’s important to pay attention to any other symptoms like odor, itching, or irritation. If you’re experiencing these symptoms, it’s best to see a doctor to rule out any underlying issues.
When a girl gets wet, what is the liquid called?
The liquid released when a female gets “wet” during sexual arousal is called vaginal lubrication. This fluid is produced by glands in the vagina and cervix and helps to facilitate comfortable sexual activity.
What is the white stuff when a girl gets wet?
The “white stuff” you might notice when a female gets wet is typically a combination of vaginal lubrication and normal vaginal discharge. The discharge can vary in color and consistency depending on the stage of the menstrual cycle and individual factors.
What are the colors of male discharge?
Normal male discharge, specifically semen, is typically whitish-gray in color. However, variations can occur. If a man notices a significant change in the color of his discharge, such as yellow, green, or brown, or if it’s accompanied by other symptoms like pain or discomfort, he should consult with a healthcare professional to rule out any potential infections or underlying medical conditions.
Putting It All Together
The key difference between male and female discharge is that males shouldn’t have any, and females should. Understanding what’s normal and what’s not is key to protecting your reproductive health.
If you see sudden changes in your discharge, it’s important to seek medical attention. Early diagnosis and treatment can prevent some serious health problems.
Talk openly about sexual health with your partner and your doctor, and get tested for sexually transmitted infections regularly, even for HPV. Understand the risks, prevention, and facts you need. It’s important to get tested even if you don’t have any symptoms, especially if you are concerned about potential exposure to infections like herpes.